Just a snap of me in action
Have you ever said: ‘I am rubbish at public speaking’? Do you dream of having engaging presentation skills?
Have you ever thought: ‘I wish I knew how to put a talk together that wouldn’t bore people’
Then good news — this blog post is spot on for you.
You are going to learn 5 steps to shut up the ‘rubbish at’ voice and equip you with tactics that supercharge your presentation skills. What you need is a challenge — no more procrastination. Just test yourself out — follow these 5 days of challenges and get things moving — action is the best tool to beat over-thinking and procrastination!
If you have a mouth and a brain you can speak in public
That’s all very well, but what if….
- my voice isn’t nice to listen to
- I shake when I try to speak in public
- people just glaze over when I start a speech
- I freeze up half way through — and look stupid
- people know I am sweating
- I get asked something I can’t answer
We never completely get rid of the gremlins in our brain — nagging nasty negative gremlins. We can put them in a box though — and starved of fresh air they begin to wilt. The best tools we have to enable us to put these fears into a box — tactics and action — followed by learning and more action — we can take control.
Priority #1 is to give your audience a good experience — whether it is 2 minutes or 2 hours. You want them to feel engaged, involved, interested. Maybe inspired, motivated — and in some way ‘richer’ for the experience of having listened to your message.
So that is something to aim for!
Study this list — they all make for strong connection with the audience:
- Relaxed body posture
- Conversational style
- Unexpected ‘twist’ or ‘change of tone’
- Involving the audience with reflective questions … (Don’t you..?)
- Humour — but in a very relaxed authentic style — woven in.
- Serious points combined with humour
Really? I hear you say. ‘I do the 5 day challenge and I will achieve this standard? Come on!’
Well no — you will not reach this level of skill overnight — what seems so natural to experienced speakers will actually have been highly prepared, practised and tweaked with with all that experience.
However, you have to start somewhere . So start now.
Here’s your action plan
- Start. Write a list of all the reasons for making the effort — and start the journey.
- Take this 5 day challenge set out below.
- Sign up below to get your free mini training video on and around the challenge of ‘presentations’ ‘elevator pitches and ‘public speaking’.
- Consider further input from a good coach :)
Ready to get started — here is your 5-day challenge to get you presentation ready.
During your 5 days you need to make time to work through the following process — it won’t take a whole day — but needs commitment.
DAY 1 — get to know your voice
- Read for 1 minute — out loud — from an article that interests you — record it on your Iphone or Laptop recorder. Play back. Listen as objectively as you can. Make a note of what you ‘feel’ and write a list of the obvious ‘need to sort’ stuff.
- Repeat step 1 — but do it ‘better’.
DAY 2 — get objective feedback
- Write your own piece on your ‘thing’ — no more than 500 words (side of A4 ish). Now memorise — not word perfect — you can have the headings on flash cards.
- Get a guinea pig — not literally. A friend who will give brutally honest feedback. Deliver the piece to this friend.
DAY 3 — explore content and delivery
- Spot your body language negatives — is it relaxed and normal
- Would an audience feel relaxed watching and listening to you?
DAY 4 — fine tune and feedback
- Now get your guinea pig again (and ideally 2 or 3) — and by now you will also have changed the structure and content a little — paying attention to the flow and engaging quality of your message
- Deliver the mini talk to the guinea pig/s. DO THIS AS IF YOU WERE IN A CONVERSATION — but also in control and using a structure — that’s the strong/warm balance you need to aim for.
- Get them to write notes and feedback afterwards.
DAY 5 — chill out & get confident
- Go for a walk. Go over your presentation out loud and in your head — get very comfortable with the flow, purpose and content. Feel like you own it — and get excited about the message. Relax and prepare.
If you really commit to the above list of actions (done in the right order) — you will have the tools to feel more confident about getting out there and spreading the word about you and your business — engaging people who might well become clients and who will certainly start spreading the word about you in a positive way.
If this is your first attempt at doing a presentation then be gentle with yourself — you won’t be at your top level until you start getting more practice.
Did you spot the magic? By the way — please get obsessed with TED TALKS — they are the best tutor you could ask for (apart from me — but there’s only one of me!)
Would you agree that Ken Robinson engaged that audience within about 2 seconds and never lost them? Well — study that list I ran through higher up the page — he used ALL those tactics.