How to stop the self-sabotaging spiral sparked by someone not believing you.

‘I never said that!’ And then it starts — hurt, anger, self-sabotage sadness. What is going on and do you have a stop button?

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  • Your attempt to defend your identity is being ignored.
  • You feel stupid and isolated.
  • You decide you are useless.

How to stop the self-sabotage spiral

Tip 1: Stop analysing, arguing and agonising over the incident.

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