How to stop the self-sabotaging spiral sparked by someone not believing you.

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  • Your identity has been trashed.
  • Your attempt to defend your identity is being ignored.
  • You feel stupid and isolated.
  • You decide you are useless.

How to stop the self-sabotage spiral

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Writing about all the stuff that has an impact on our impact. Communication skills and mindset. Author of The Mystery of The Squashed Self. www.trishalewis.com

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Trisha Lewis

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Writing about all the stuff that has an impact on our impact. Communication skills and mindset. Author of The Mystery of The Squashed Self. www.trishalewis.com

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